The Real Truth About Twin Flames
At the moment of your creation, contrary to what you may have been brought up to believe, you were not created alone. You were created with your Divine Counterpart, your Twin Flame.
You were created as a 'dual-unit': a Divine Masculine and a Divine Feminine counterpart, perfectly complementary to one-another.
Don't be mistaken though, you are not "two halves of one soul", but rather, two whole beings who share the same consciousness. In the same way that you have biological DNA, you also have spiritual/soul DNA. As Twin Flames, you hold the same exact soul DNA otherwise known as your Soul Blueprint.
Your Twin Flame is YOU. They are your energy expressed in either the Masculine or the Feminine energy, depending on which one you express. You as a person are not both Masculine and Feminine, you are either/or. You are either the complete embodiment of the Divine Masculine expressing in human form, or the Divine Feminine expressing in human form and this depends on your soul design. You can also be a Divine Masculine expressing himself in a female body and vice versa, but the majority of people are Masculines in a male body and Feminines in a female body.
Your relationship with your Twin Flame is a direct result of your relationship with yourself and your relationship with Source/God/the Creator (let's not get caught up in semantics, from here on out I will refer to the Supreme Creator/Universe/Source as "God" and "He").
Now...what are Twin Flames to each other?
Well first and foremost your Twin Flame is your greatest teacher (after God) and you are your Twin Flame's greatest teacher also.
Then, they are your greatest student, as you learn immensely from one another.
They are then your best friend - there is no one you will connect more deeply with and have more to talk about than with your Twin Flame - they are YOU.
Then life/life purpose/eternal partner. You and your Twin Flame have a shared Life Purpose, as you share One consciousness. You are a dual-unit expressing itself in two bodies.
And finally, Twin Flames are Ultimate Lovers. You were designed to only be with each other, and to completely fulfil each other in every area of your existence.
Everything that you have been desiring in a lover, partner, friend, student or spiritual teacher... is your Twin Flame.
Now all these mentioned above are not a set structure for which Twin Flames follow, but rather they are all interlinked and flow into one another, happening simultaneously.
Your Twin Flame has been designed perfectly for you to fulfil you in EVERY AREA of your life as your perfect partner. The relationship between you and your Twin Flame is designed to be all of the above, but if you are experiencing a lack of a relationship in any of the mentioned areas, it is merely highlighting a block for you to heal, and by "block" I mean, an aspect of you that is separate from you/fragmented/resisting love and yet calling for it at the same time. Once you heal the block, you will experience fulfilment in that area. Blocks are very easy to heal using the Mirror Exercise.
How It Works
You are each other's greatest teachers by being Divine Mirrors. Your Twin Flame shows you your blocks (on a soul level, which means the mirroring effect is mostly played out unconsciously) which are aspects of yourself that are out of alignment with God and yourself, that are "separate" from God and that are in essence, calling to be healed by calling for self love.
Your Twin Flame shows you every part of yourself that is asking for self love. They show you, where to love yourself next. They are your Divine Mirror.
They show you by "triggering" you. They trigger an upset within you and bring this emotion, or vibration onto the surface to be healed.
Twin Flames share the same blocks. This is because they share one consciousness. The blocks are the same at the core but they may express themselves differently in the physical world. You share the same core fears, core wounds and core lessons, but again, these may express themselves and play out differently on the physical scale.
As you heal your blocks, you are healing the block for your Twin Flame too because it was a block in your shared consciousness, and thus when they heal a block they are healing it for you also!
On a soul level, you are always partnered and working together to heal the separation within yourselves and within each other to come into Union with God and with each other. Healing the blocks is like tending to and nurturing a beautiful garden together - at one point you will be tending to the rose bush, while they are tending to the sunflowers or pulling out the weeds. Your Twin Flame Union is like a spectacular garden and it must be nurtured, cared for and loved, in order for it to grow, flourish and evolve to give you the fruits that will nourish you, but remember that every garden has weeds and these weeds must be uprooted.
The weeds are the blocks and the blocks present to you the illusion of separation. In Truth you are never separate, but you are experiencing the illusion of separation. The purpose of the triggering is to bring your awareness to that place so that you can heal that place and thus the illusion can be uprooted. Once the illusion is uprooted, the block is healed and it no longer serves a purpose in your reality. Your reality transforms and no longer shows you that illusion as you have seen through it.
There is no need to blame or point fingers at your Twin Flame no matter how "painful" or "uncomfortable" the feeling of being triggered by them is. They are only being the Divine Mirror to you as you are to them and showing you exactly which aspect of you is calling for self love. This is only one of the many gifts that your Twin Flame gives you. In Truth, Twin Flames are an ascension path to Enlightenment, to God. They show you everywhere that needs to be healed so you can come into a state of Union and Oneness with God and thus embody your True Self.
What Happens Next?
Once you heal these fragmented, parts of yourself that are out of alignment with your Divine Self and who you TRULY are in the Enlightened state... you progressively attain the state of wholeness that you've probably heard people in a spiritual or health-conscious community talk about!
The state of wholeness is a state of inner peace and a state of unconditional self love. In this wholeness, you have attained a Union within yourself, with the God within you, and thus this is reflected by attaining Union (a relationship) with your Twin Flame in your external reality.
You heal your blocks using the Mirror Exercise
The Mirror Exercise is a phenomenal, exquisite spiritual healing tool developed by Jeff and Shaleia Ayan. It can be found in Jeff and Shaleia's book Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover available on Amazon.
It is incredibly easy to use, simple and effective for healing ALL blocks in your life. An invaluable tool on your Twin Flame journey, the Mirror Exercise is effective for healing EVERY part of your life that you are unhappy with, and is not limited to healing blocks between you and your Twin Flame. This is because every part of your life that you are unhappy with points back to the relationship you have with yourself internally, and your Twin Flame is just one aspect of that.
The Truth of Your Reality
Your external reality is only a projection of your internal reality. We are constantly, in every moment, in a state of projecting our internal state to form the external reality (which is the reality we experience living in) and this happens whether we are consciously aware of it or not.
Our life and experiences do not happen TO US, we create them based on how we truly feel about ourselves internally. It is for this very reason that once you begin to heal your relationship with yourself internally, your external reality begins to transform to align with that. It has to, it's a Universal Law and there is no way around it, the only way is through!
So, yes you might have come across the Law of Attraction at some point and accepted that all the good things in your life were attracted by you...but what about the not-so-good things? The pain, the suffering perhaps, the traumatic experiences? Yes, you attracted them too - unconsciously probably, but nevertheless you still created it!
If your external reality is a reflection of your internal reality (which it is), then ALL the things you are experiencing in your life, are indeed what have been created by the vibration you have been sending out to the Universe. It doesn't matter if you were conscious of it or not, you are a multidimensional being and in a constant state of projecting your internal reality to your external, making it real, tangible and visible.